Jackie Tinguee’s Lifelong Commitment to Children
Jackie Tinguee has dedicated her career to helping children thrive. A devoted mother of three daughters and grandmother of two, she joined Boys Town Louisiana in 2006, working with 16 girls at the Behrman location when it operated as a group home. Four years ago, she transitioned to the Assistant Family-Teacher role in the Family Home Program, where she now supports boys at the City Park and Bienville homes.
Creating Stability in the Family Home Program
The Family Home Program provides a warm, supportive environment where children experience the stability of a family unit. Family-Teachers serve as parental figures, while Assistant Family-Teachers like Jackie offer additional guidance and care. The goal is to create a home where children feel safe, valued and encouraged to grow.
From celebrating birthdays to attending doctor’s appointments, assisting with school and organizing outings like bowling, bike riding and trips to the zoo, Jackie plays a critical role in ensuring each child’s needs are met. Each home houses four to six children, with staff working closely to develop both short- and long-term care plans that guide them toward a stable future.
The Emotional Weight of the Job
Jackie finds deep fulfillment in her work, but it comes with challenges. Leaving the job at the door is nearly impossible—the weight of each child’s struggles stays with her. Witnessing children suffer due to circumstances beyond their control is heartbreaking, and she has experienced the pain of seeing some leave the program, only to return to unsafe environments.
Yet the rewards outweigh the hardships. Many children overcome incredible obstacles, build stable lives and later return to express their gratitude. Even those who didn’t recognize the impact of their time at Boys Town in the moment often reflect on it as a turning point in their lives.
Rydell’s and Jackie’s Journey
One of the boys Jackie has supported is Rydell, who arrived at the Behrman emergency shelter at 12 years old. Withdrawn and reserved, he found solace in books rather than people, avoiding discussions about his past or emotions. It wasn’t until high school that he began to open up—reconnecting with his siblings, trusting those around him and sharing his story.
Jackie was there through it all, offering unwavering support. She recognized that Rydell needed to grow at his own pace, giving him space when necessary but always being there when he was ready to talk.
Now, seeing Rydell’s remarkable transformation, Jackie couldn’t be prouder. His journey is a testament to the power of patience, trust and the impact of a loving, structured home environment.